being single. what are you afraid of??

Being single. in terms of romance relationship, or friendship relationship. some people might get apprehended when they think of being single? why is this so? why is it must be a feel of 'fear'? well to simply sum up things, i have been on this situation and i'm currently single as well. well, in terms of romance relationship. my very first post on 2013 would be on this issue. :) there are 4 reasons why i want to write about this.

1. because i'm single
2. because this would make me feel better
3. because i want to help others who have the same issue as mine
4. because it my blog, so i can write anything i want.
haha XD

anyway,

afraid of being alone is normal for all people, in fact i am afraid of the dark myself, but, being afraid about you don't have boyfriend, girlfriend, isn't something you should be afraid of. really. as yourself, what do want from a relationship? why do you want to be in it so much? see it all comes to you, its all about yourself. of course some people would tell me, "i want to be loved, don't you want to be loved? having someone that actually there for you, that cares for you, that listens to you.. bla, bla.." and list goes on. :)

well, it is undeniable, that everybody wants to be loved and also love. same goes for me.

consider this case, Cathy is a successful woman, so hold a B.sc with high honours, a great stable job, nice car *of course she pays it off herself., a nice loving supportive family and close friends.. but there is one thing, she does not have a bf like any other of her colleagues does! maybe it is because of her weight issue or whatever which i don;t quite relate to this shit because i think nobody is ugly. each of us is unique in our own way. *cliche haha but its trueee. now, what the heck is she lookin for a man anyways????! to reproduce? ohhh no, there is a lot of other things in life rather than getting banged or banging. please. in this case, being in a relationship, just gives her more liability than giving her an advantage. in biological terms, it is sort of kinda like symbiotic relationship in the class of parasitism what we call.

okay so here s the list of the cons of being single:
1. you are FREE. i mean, free. real free. don't you just love to being free and having the authority of being in control of your own life? you can go out with who ever you like, anywhere, anytime.

2. more quality time with your self and loved one. by the term loved one here is family or friends. really. on the phone 24/7 with ur bf/gf. I've been there and done that, and frankly speaking i do have some feel of regret dong that. because I've lost a lot of quality time with my family and friends.

3. you saves money. *the most obvious.

4. you don't have to cover up stupid shits you do. really, tell me, do you act the same infront of you bf/gf? compare when ur with your besties? tell me, tell me now??!

5. you can be more independent. seriously, this is what am i going through right now. maybe sometimes, friends cannot always be with you 24/7. so you have to do things alone. really its just making you feel more "adult" and more stronger than you've ever think of.

6. because you are strong!  you are strong to stand with your on feet and don't depend on others! i've been in the whole damsel-in-distress-f*cked-up-situation myself. but i set my mind strong by thinking that i am strong, and independent.

7. you don't have to be rejected. to those who are using online dating services, you of course nedd to go for a blind date. so, when you really went for a "physical" date with your so-called partner, if you do not meet his/her expectation, what will you think they would do? hahaha hence, to reduce the feeling of being rejected, take my advice honey.


hurm, hat is all of the cons that i can think about this time. i post this because I've also in this situation. before this i'm no that strong to accept the fact that i'm all alone, single-nobody-wants-dude. but after going through a lot of rejections this decade. *ahahah decade?!! i came to a realization sorta kinda of epiphany if you would say. i'm tired of being rejected, being sad, being fooled, being used. so i chose this path. a lot of my friends who are in relationship, a bad relationship, does not want to end their relationship. simply because they think ouhhh they cannot live with their partners. really b*tch? all you need is O2 to live. you don't shit with me. if you cannot live life without your partner, then how you lived before of his/her presence??!! you don't shit me. okay? there is a saying that goes, "it is better to be alone rather than a bad relationship even a minute." okay?

alrighty then, this is the end of my post right now, watch out more from me on next post. more on relationship issues and stuffs.
peace,
i'm outta of here!
:)
Amir Mohd 12.36a.m 26 april 2013